Bostonherald – A teenage stripper who claims she gave a lap dance to one high school teacher and was smitten by another is threatening to sue her school for letting her taboo affair flourish, her lawyer told the Herald. Elaine Ivanowski, 19, of Hubbardston should have been given help when word got out she was dating John Monfredo Jr., 36, starting in her junior year at Quabbin Regional High School in Barre, said her lawyer, Richard J. Rafferty. Instead, a teacher she confided in about the torrid relationship asked her out, while another stopped into the Centerfolds club where she works for a lap dance, he said. “It created a hostile environment,” Rafferty said. Ivanowski, according to Rafferty, professed her love to Monfredo in a letter when she was 18 and a junior. Last summer she began having an affair with the married Monfredo, her lawyer said. Monfredo told the Worcester Telegram & Gazette he was in love with his former student, but did not know whether school administrators were aware of the tryst. Rafferty accuses school officials of allowing Ivanowski to remain in a relationship she should have been protected from.“You can say she was an exotic dancer and she was 18, but it was not an equal relationship,” Rafferty said. School officials should have removed Monfredo from the classroom, Rafferty said. Ivanowski suffered from such severe anxiety that she was unable to take exams, and the school banned her from participating in last weekend’s graduation ceremony, her lawyer said.

Dude how stupid is the teacher who asked this chick out? You don’t ask strippers out on dates like this. You do what the other teacher did. You just show up at Centerfolds. You get a couple lap dances first. You wine and dine her in the club. You give her big tips. You listen to all her problems and dreams as she’s grinding her ass into your junk. You let her tell you how she’s just working at the club to make enough money to pay for college. In other words you build a relationship first and then and only then do you ask her out. Everybody knows that’s how you get to fuck a stripper/student. Instead this guy hears how she’s banging Mr. Monfredo and how she works at Centerfolds and then he basically jizzes himself and is instantly like “Umm you want to make out now?” That’s fucking rookie ball dude. Act like you’ve been there before. Quabbin Regional bet step it up mother fucker because this wouldn’t even make the back pages in Florida.