DM- I’ve written a lot of sex books over the years and given a lot of advice. Most of it, I still stand by 20 years on. But there’s been an enormous amount of research into sex since I started out and we understand more about our sexual systems and responses now, than we ever have. This means original theories need to be reconsidered – and maybe completely rethought. What’s stood the test of time and what’s actually a load of rubbish? You should have sex for 20 minutes or longer. This one came about because of a survey result that said most women take 20 minutes to climax. Everyone took that to mean 20 minutes of general foreplay but in fact, it meant 20 minutes of direct and consistent clitoral stimulation.

So it takes 20 minutes of direct and consistent clitoral stimulation to get a chick to have an orgasm? Well fucking no wonder I suck at sex then. I always thought it was because I had a small dick or wasn’t doing it right. Nope it’s because I shoot my load too quick. Listen ladies, nobody wants to last longer than me. But I’d also love to look like Leonardo Dicaprio, have a cock like Lex Steele and have as much money as Richard Branson . In other words you don’t get everything you want in life. if I could fuck for 20 minutes straight I would. Consider yourself lucky if you get 20 seconds though. That’s not me talking. That’s natural selection talking.  Men were built to spread their seed as fast as possible and move on and that’s exactly what I do.  It’s really a miracle of evolution. All this machine does is swim and eat and cum in 2 seconds and that’s all.