ESPNTo too many of us — sports writers, analysts or supposed Patriots fans — the Super Bowl is a zero-sum game. Win and we would step in front of arrows for you. Lose and you’re the biggest choker since the Hillside Strangler. Tom Brady is hearing all that ugliness now. So is Wes Welker. So is Bill Belichick. They don’t deserve it. They don’t deserve anything near it. “You blew this Super Bowl,” Boston Globe sports writer Eric Wilbur wrote of Brady on Monday. “You denied your coach No. 4. You let down your teammates.” … “Epic fail,” Kerry J. Byrne wrote of Belichick on ColdHardFootballFacts.com. “Epic failures from one end of the organization to the other.” … The Patriots should not renew Welker’s contract, suggested Luke Hughes of Boston’s NESN.com. “It’s a hard sell to start with and an even harder one when you consider that [fourth-quarter] drop,” he wrote…  Eight thousand Butterfingers were dumped in Copley Square on Tuesday to mock Welker. Tough crowd… A little decaf, folks: The Patriots lost the Super Bowl on the last play of the game when a tipped ball failed to stay in the air another quarter second longer so a one-legged Rob Gronkowski could possibly catch it. If it had, all three of these writers would be hailing Brady, Belichick and Welker as just slightly greater than Lincoln. How fickle are you people?

I’m so frigging dumbfounded by the fact that Rick Reilly- of all people- is making sense of all this that I’m reluctant to take issue with him.  But I have no choice.  This is one of those instances when we have to draw a distinction between Patriots fans and the people who cover them.  Like I said when Eric Wilbur wrote that asinine claptrap on Monday, he hasn’t the first clue what New Englanders are thinking.  If he did, he wouldn’t have tried to claim he was trying to write what we’re all saying.  And those corporate criminals who dumped the Butterfingers don’t speak for Patriots fans anymore than British Petroleum speaks for people of the Gulf region.  And anyone who says the team shouldn’t bring Welker back doesn’t know a goddamn thing about what the Patriots fanbase is feeling right now.  Having Welker back works strictly from a football perspective because he’s the single most reliable receiver in the game, but also from a rooting interest because he’s an overachieving, team-first workaholic who drives opponents insane and makes you proud to pull a Kid’s Small No. 83 jersey over your son’s head.  If this nobody from NESN thinks Welker won’t get a booming Standing-O at the home opener next year he’s living in a fantasy world.

Full disclosure: Kerry Byrne of Cold, Hard Football Facts is a Stoolie and a friend of mine.  And he can break football down to its numerical components and make sense of it better than any man on the planet.  But even he’s missing the point if he thinks this loss represents “epic failures” of the organization.  If anything, the 2011 season validates the team’s philosophy.  It proves the Patriots Way works.  Once again, they were there until the very end.   The thinnest of pubic hairs away from winning it all.  Just like they were in 2006 and 2007.  While all the teams that made splashy free agent signings and grabbed flashier sexier names in the draft were sitting at home watching.  Would we rather see them do business like Philly?  Or Atlanta?  Oakland, God forbid?  I know they don’t get a trophy or rings or Duckboats for coming subatomically close to winning.  But anyone who goes off the deep end about it… or thinks Patriots fans are going off the deep end about it, is flat out wrong.  It’s a measure of what a strange week it’s been that I’m agreeing with Rick Reilly on that point.  @JerryThornton1